Dreams, goals, and aspirations. Do you follow them, ignore them, and trust they’ll happen? How many of them are you going to do?
The common thing in achieving all of these is that you must take control, have a plan on how you’re going to action them to make any of them happen, no matter how big or small they may be.
If you really placed a high priority about any of them they would have happened! So are they your dreams, goals and aspirations or are they someone else’s? Do you have your own future scripted or someone else’s?
Listening to what you truly want is not as easy as it may sound, there may be pressure from others to be or do something that is not you, or there may be a need to be something you’re notthrough financial or family pressure.
99% of all problems start with early misunderstandings. Because you see the world as you are not as it is. You interpret things differently, it’s your perspective not anyone else’s. It’s your prior experience that allows you to interpret your facts in different ways. Most people however would argue that they see it objectively, as it is, that they are right.
A common occurrence is that people fail to listen and have a balanced point of view. To fully understand another you need to listen first. Listening from another’s point of view takes skill and emotional strength. For example, “I hear your saying”, “I sense your feeling” Most people however, choose fight or flight, the third alternative could be let me see if I understand you first.